affect agressive bad-perception bad-situations change come competition don-t-fight don-t-pursue dreams ego emotions fight freedom go good-perception good-situations growth happiness hard-questions intuition joy lack-of-intuition leave losing love meanings meanings-we-give-people meanings-we-give-situations negative-emotions negative-outlook no-trust outcomes outlook passive person perspective positive-emotions positive-outlook pursue saddness sentiments signs situation slavery stay symbolism trust what-it-means-to-you winning wrong-perception