Shannon L. Alder

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When you blame others, what you are really saying is what is inside of you can’t be fixed, so you have no control of your own happiness. Therefore, you have made the conscience choice to give focus and fuel to a bad situation that will take you nowhere and give you nothing, but ignorance and pain.

Shannon L. Alder

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You can be broken into a dozen shattered pieces and still heal the world because service has its own medicine–hope.